“I AM AN IRONMAN” or “The Life Lesson I Learned That Took 140.6 Miles to Learn”

As of Saturday September 7th, 2014 at 10:32 PM I became an Ironman Triathlete in Madison, WI. Being an Ironman means I swam for 2.4 miles, rode my bike 112 miles, then completed a full marathon under 17 hours.It has been a year journey. Scratch that, It has been a nine year journey.My official training started in the last week of December 2013 but I’ve been training since my first marathon way back in 2005.

My girlfriend Emily and I taking selfie right before I start my swim.

My girlfriend Emily and I taking a selfie right before I start my swim.

I’m gonna break down the day. The weather was beautiful and I had my wonderful girlfriend by my side until I jumped in the water at 6:30 am. Emily and I were taking selfies, saying prayers, setting up, and just going over the race day. Emily was a trooper. But more on that later.

2.4 Mile Swim.

2.4 Mile Ironman 2014 Swim in Lake Monona. Photo by Debbie Lample.

The official race started at 7:00 AM but you can swim out to the start 30 minutes early and tread water. So I missed an important detail, The Ironman Wisconsin is a 3,000 athlete mass start in Lake Monona. Not an age group wave start, a 3,000 athlete mass start. You are  a trout swimming upstream with other 2,999 trout. The entire time after start gun goes off, I was kicked, punched, swam over, and swam under. At one point I thought my arms were going to fall off. But I kept telling my self to stay calm, keeping eyeing for the buoys, and focus on my swimming form. I’m sure other athletes heard me say out loud, “Stay calm, Bobby. Stay calm” when my goggles were knocked off my face at the second turn. My goal for the 2.4 mile swim was 80 minutes. I finished in 79 minutes. When I got out of the water I waved my arms around in the air joyfully screamed, “I’m alive!” Just at the edge of the gate I saw Emily. I touched her hand and went to a wet suit peeler to help me get my wet suit off. Later I learned from Emily I waked a security guard on my way out of the water in my excitement. (Sorry Mr. Security Guard)

After the wet suit was peeled I ran up the parking road helix to the second floor of Monona Terrace where I could change into my bike gear. There were people screaming the entire way up. The volunteers had that place running smoothly. Before I go further, Monona Terrace is Madison’s Expo center. Monona Terrace’s ballrooms were converted into transition/ changing rooms for all the triathletes. I exited the changing ballroom and went to a volunteer just out side the bike racks who were lathering athletes up in bullfrog sunscreen. After I was lathered up, I went to where my bike was stationed. A volunteer handed my bike to me and I then got on my bike. I rode down the opposite end of Monona Terrace where I started the 112 mile cycling portion.

Going uphill at Mile 90 on cycle portion.

Going uphill at Mile 90 on cycle portion. I’m still smiling. Photo by Clint Moyers.

On the bike I had two goals in mind besides just finishing. One – maintain a speed of 14 to 17 mph and conserve as much energy for the marathon, Two – Eat, Eat, Eat, Drink, Eat, Drink. The weather was getting hotter and the road was hilly. I was letting people pass me who wanted to get by. My goal was to finish not to race people today. I just focused on my goals and staying safe. As I rode I thought, “this course is pretty but really hilly”. I don’t like going downhills cause I’m afraid of losing control so many cyclists were passing me up on down hills. Funny thing was I was a monster going uphill so I passed them up on uphills. The uphills were easier on me thanks to my third little ring on my bike which I don’t think many people utilized all their rings on the up hills. At mile 12 I started getting a sinus head ache. To relive my head pain I blew my nose all over my bike glove cause I didn’t have any kleenex. That kept happening for the first 40 miles. At mile 50 I started seeing my friends. I really surprised them. First I saw my friends Debbie and Donna W. They said oh my is that Bobby so I replied “YES it’s me” as I focused on the uphill. Little more up the road I saw fellow Team In Training Coaches Marie, Chris, Donna K., & Toby. Same reaction as before. They said is that Bobby. I yelled out, “Yup”. On the second loop (just passed 90 miles) Toby got a video of me. I yelled out “My butt really hurts.” That time I was thinking I’ll need to invest in a new seat for next time and put portable anti-chaffing creme in my emergency bag.

At mile 53 I saw my family just after I refilled my water bottles. At times I asked other cyclists, “Who’s hungry for pizza?” For what ever reason the second cycle loop felt shorter then the first. Towards the end of the bike my stomach was starting to get full. Nothing big but I can feel it coming on. As I rode back into Monona Terrace I saw my family cheering for me. Now I was on to my strongest event, the marathon. I maintained a slow and steady pace on the bike of an average of 14.82 mph  for a total time of 7 hours and 33 minutes.

NOTE I’m about to give out more personal information then you might need to know. It’s all PG but just wanted to give you a heads up. 

Here I am keeping up an Athletic Walk just past mile 13. I'm forcing a smile.

Here I am keeping up an Athletic Walk just past mile 13. I’m forcing a smile. Photo by Chris Kind.

After I got out of my cycle clothes and into my running clothes I started my 5 minute run and 1 minute walk. Thanks to Marie, she let me borrow her Ironman Timex watch.  The GPS was not working but I really needed it to look over my intervals. I saw Emily at the capital and I gave her a kiss. Then I saw my Team In Training friends (Marie, Chris, Donna, & Toby) just a few feet later. I was feeling strong and confident. Up to mile 5 I maintained my 5:1 interval with a 11 minute per mile pace (My goal). Then I stared getting a sloshy stomach and getting tired. I moved to a 1 minute run and 5 minute walk interval. Soon I was only athletic walking. Then I was hitting a porta potty every other mile. I maintained a good walking athletic form the entire time but I was aching and my muscles were tighting up. My body did not want to eat any more. I was starting to feel dizzy and my stomach did not want to take any more fluids. Worst of all I entered the “bite me zone”. If you don’t know what the bite me zone is, the bite me zone is a time when you’re so tired you get irritable at everyone and everything. Yes me the happy go lucky, loud, happiness is a choice guy was not so happy. I was just focused on getting to the next point and my stomach.

The marathon course consisted of two loops of 13.1 miles each. I just finished a 13 mile loop. I was thinking after I made the turn for the second loop:

  • Could I do it all over again?
  • All my long distance training went well, why didn’t I do more long distance bike and run trainings in the same day?
  • I need to go poop and my body won’t let me.
  • I almost thew up in the bathroom cause of the smell alone. Am I done?
  • Do I need to see a medic?
  • Did I stop sweating?
  • Am I dehydrated?
  • I don’t want to quit. Should I?
Mile 13.1 and I'm in pain.

Mile 13.1 and I’m in pain.

I kept going. I got to my special needs running bag and grabbed a sprite. I couldn’t stomach anything else. A few feet ahead I saw Emily and my Team In Training friends. I knew I could stretch and vent to them. When I  reached them I got into a fetal position to stretch my legs and give my stomach a rest.  “You’re doing great. You have six more hours to finish the course,” Chris told me. I was scarred and to the point I wanted to cry. Everyone encouraged me. Emily rubs my back and tells me that she’s been updating my family and friends via my phone on my status. Marie encouraged me to get some warm Chicken Broth at the next water stop to help fuel electrolytes and fluid. Then Chris reminded me that happiness is a choice not matter the distance. Marie then interjected by jokingly and lovingly saying, “Bobby payback is a bitch huh?” It made me laugh. It’s usually the opposite. I’m positive helping others in pain. The tables are turned.

Team In Training Cheer Section

Team In Training Cheer Section with Marie, Chris, Donna K. and Donna W.

So I kept going. I was quoting Pete the Cat in my head. Pete the Cat is a character from a popular children’s book series. I kept thinking like Pete, Just keep walking along and singing your song cause it’s all good. At this point my mood is starting to change. I keep pushing. My athletic walk is faster then every other athletes’ walk. I kept chugging along.

Right before I finish.

Right before I finish.

I’m at mile 25 and there are few crowds left. Everyone is back at the finishing line. I then see Emily cheering for me with her self made Bobby Head on a stick fan. She wanted to make sure I was okay. (I told you she’s awesome). She’s impressed how I’ve picked up my pace. She can’t keep up with me. I tell her to get to the finish line so she can see me finish. I slow down just a bit to stall.

I get to the finishing chute. I hear the cheering. I see the lights. I hear the music. I try to soak it in. I try to cherish the moment because It’s not often you’re a first timer. I pick up the pace to a slow run. I start giving everyone I can a high five. I see the finish. I see the lights. I swear the lights got brighter Then I hear the announcer say it. The one quote I’ve been training to hear for nine whole months…

“Robert Dobroski…YOU ARE AN IRONMAN!”

Robert Dobroski...YOU ARE AN IRONMAN!

Robert Dobroski…YOU ARE AN IRONMAN!

My dad, My mom, and my girlfriend at the end of the Ironman.

My dad, My mom, and my girlfriend at the end of the Ironman.

I did it I’m an Ironman. I had enough in the tank for a giant leap of relief and celebration. It took me 15 hours and 32 minutes but I did it. All of my friends and family were at the finish. Emily handed my iPhone to me and I was amazed and felt so much love when I saw the wave of text messages and Facebook status updates with screenshots of my finish.

As I had 15 hours to think, I summarized my experience into a powerful lesson. The road of life is tough with ups and downs. There will be times with high and lows. There will be times you’ll see the end but it will seem impossible to get to. Sometimes you may fall, stumble, and get sick to your stomach. Everything will seem impossible. There will be times you’ll want to quit…DON’T. Get back up and get support from the people that love you. Keep looking forward and break up the challenge into smaller parts. Get to the small goals and keep moving. THE challenge is tough but the reward is AMAZING!

I couldn’t have done this race without the support of so many people. There were times this past year I didn’t think I would cross that finish line.

THANK YOU….

  • To my parents Bob and Natalie: I’ve been having financial difficulty this year. My parents helped me by sending me food and helping me finance my trip to WI.
  • To my girlfriend Emily: Who has also been feeding me well but has also put up with modified date nights and early morning texts about my workouts.
  • To my friend Mike: Who helped give me extra Energy chomps and help me set my pace for the marathon.
  • To my friend Clint: Who accompanied me on the long Saturday bike rides.
  • To my friend Marie: Who gave me my training schedule, loaned me her Ironman Timex Watch, Introduced me to Emily, and cheered for me on race day even though she’s going through her own personal endurance event.
  • To all of my friends: You cheered for me at Wisconsin or at home. You believed me when at time I couldn’t believe in myself.
  • To all the race organizers and volunteers: Amazing job at the race. There would be no race without you.

My goal now is to focus on general health and future endeavors. I’ll do an Ironman again but not yet. So I’ll sign off by saying my favorite quote. If anyone ever asks you “how’s it going?” say “forward” that way you’re never lying. Keep moving along and singing your song.

MEME MONDAY…KEEP CALM and Donate to LLS…Someday is Today

It’s Meme Monday! Today we’re memeing the “Keep Calm”

KEEP CALM and Donate to LLS. Someday is today we'll find a cure for blood cancer.

Keep Calm and Donate to LLS. Someday is today we’ll find a cure for blood cancer.

My goal is to raise $6,000 for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) by December 2013 in all honor of all my friends and family who have been affected by cancer.  Please consider making a donation on my fundraising page at http://pages.teamintraining.org/vtnt/wdw14/rdobroski.

The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) is the world’s largest voluntary health organization dedicated to funding blood cancer research and providing education and patient services. To date, LLS has invested more than $875 million in research aimed at helping all blood cancer patients live better, longer lives.

Generous donors have helped LLS support research that has already benefited blood cancer patients and many others. Advances include:

  •  Multi-drug therapies that are more effective than treatments with single anti-cancer agents,
  •  Bone marrow / stem cell transplantation and supportive care treatments for patients who relapse despite the best available therapy,
  •  Tests that distinguish specific characteristics of particular blood cancers for accurate diagnosis of cancer subtypes, and for “risk stratification” to select an optimal therapy.

Please donate at least $1 at http://pages.teamintraining.org/vtnt/wdw14/rdobroski. We’re close to the finish line to finding a cure for cancer.

MEME MONDAY…Featuring the Most Interesting Man In The World

I made another meme about Team In Training. This time it features the Dos Equis Guy.

Dos Eques Guy MEME

 

I don’t always run marathons, but when I do, I make sure I wear my Team In Training Jersey.

For a $5 donation to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society  I’ll make a meme for you! Or just donate $5 to the LLS at http://bit.ly/12quBaS. Your secure, online tax-deductible donation to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) helps fund lifesaving research and provides information and support to patients throughout their cancer journey. Give today and make a difference in the life of someone who has blood cancer.

The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS) is the largest voluntary cancer research agency specifically focused on finding cures and better treatments for blood cancer patients. With the scope and scale to fund many projects at the same time, LLS supports hundreds of cancer scientists around the world.

Join Team and Fundraise for LLS or Make A Donation to LLS?

I thought I should make a Futurama Fry Meme one of these days so…

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If you can’t join Team In Training you can always make a donation at http://pages.teamintraining.org/vtnt/wdw14/rdobroski. Why donate to the LLS? LLS funds hundreds of promising researchers at leading cancer centers and universities worldwide. And since LLS has no campus or laboratories to maintain, your investment funds more research and less overhead than a donation made elsewhere.

Feeling not silly…little Goofy… Defiantly DOPEY!!!

So I promised myself the next time I fundraise for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society through the Team In Training it will be would be a big deal. It would be special! When I joined TEAM back in February of 2006, I joined to in honor of my dad (My dad being a Lung Cancer Survivor), to learn how to run a better marathon, and to make new friends. Jump forward to 2013, I’ve ran 11 successful marathons (raced in a number of triathlons and rode in a number of century bike rides too), made so many new friends from across the country, and still enjoy a home cooked meal from my dad.

Me with my good friends, Mike and Stacey playing around on a 16 mile run.

Me with my good friends, Mike and Stacey playing around on a 16 mile run.

In 2013, I just don’t run for my dad I run for my friends. I run for my friends Mike and Stacey. Mike and Stacey are survivors themselves and without the research of the LLS I would have some very lonely Sunday runs. These days I run for all of my friends who have lost someone to cancer. I run for those who can’t. Since I have so much love to go around I’ve decided to do something crazy. No, crazy isn’t the right word. How about…I feel like doing something Dopey!

That’s right this January I’ll be running the Walt Disney World Dopey Challenge with Team In Training in honor of my friends, my friends‘ friends, and the silver anniversary of the Team In Training Program! The Dopey Challenge is 48.6 mile challenge over 4 days throughout Walt Disney World. In 4 days I will run the 5K, 10K, Half Marathon and Marathon. The most challenging part won’t be the running it will be the fundraising. 

Feeling Dopey!My goal is to raise $6,000 for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society by December 1st. I’ll be selling classic Team In Training Water Bottles, I’ll throw some crazy Fundraisers at Fox and Hound, maybe I throw in a karaoke contest or two. There will be more to come. Follow me on every social media outlet, some fun things are coming out soon from there.

Please donate a $1 or $100, or $1000. CLICK HERE TO DONATE. Your donations help much needed cancer cure research initiatives. Learn more about the research your dollars will contribute to at http://www.lls.org/#/aboutlls/researchsuccesses/ 

I decided on

Five Rules Runners Need To Know

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Here are 5 important rules that Fleet Feet Chicago told new Team In Training marathon, triathlon, and cycle participants about endurance training at the 2013 Fall Season Kickoff Party.

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  1. Focus on fit and feel of shoes. NOT COLOR.
  2. Focus on the numbers. Don’t wear shoes too long & Expensive shoes does not mean the best.
  3. Cotton kills your training.
  4. Body Glide is your best friend.
  5. Always check to multiple sources about your training.

2012 Chicago Marathon YouTube Highlights of Team In Training

So I kept with my promise. I found as many photos I could and put together made a 2012 Chicago Marathon highlight video featuring members of Team In Training.

I need photos for my Team In Training Chicago Marathon Slideshow

2012 Chicago MarathonFriends, I’m making a Team In Training 2012 Chicago Marathon Slide Show. FYI, I’m going to Facebook Stalk everyone and steal some photos off profiles. Please share any photos on my Facebook wall or mention my name in a tweet you want to be in this movie. I will post it for everyone to see when I’m finished.

2012 Chicago Marathon in The Books

I finished my eleventh marathon in 4 hours 14 minutes and 58 seconds. Originally I was suppsed to pace a visually impaird runner but she had to drop. So I did my best to pace a 4 hour marathon for the Team In Training Flex participants   The entire way I ran with a sign that said “9:00 (ish) pace”.

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I was on my way to a 4 hour marathon by 13.1 miles but fatigue gave way and I pooped out. I’m happy with my time none the less, it’s respectable. Besides, I know I’ll be running more races soon.

I was really impressed to see so many people of the course I surprisingly knew ALOT of people. I had friends, family and team mates I haven’t seen in years throughout the course. All in all, It was a beautiful day, there was lots of support, and a water station every mile and half it seemed. A lot of my friends had personal records.

After I finished my race, I grabbed a sandwich, washed it down with a 312, thew on my Team In Training Coach Gear and went back on the course to cheer people in. My Garmin Battery died somewhere in the 35 mile range wile I was still on the course. Does that make me a ultra marathon runner?

I was extremely proud of one of my Teammates Mary. It was her first completed marathon and on her birthday. It took her 8 hours to finish the marathon. All the coaches were extremely proud of her. I was disappointed to find out that the race ran out of medals. So I gave Mary the medal around my neck. According the head Coach Marie’s wall post on Facebook, “she wore it to dinner and slept with it on. We did get her to take it off long enough to get it engraved today with ‘Slow but effective.'”

What next? I haven’t decided yet. I do want my next marathon to be in another state so I can finally join the 50 state club. Preferably I would like to do a winter marathon. Any suggestions?

 

Thank You To My Friends

Team In Training Cheer Squad

Some of my friends from Team In Training cheering on the 2012 Chicago Marathon participants.

One thing I forget to post was to thank all of my friends and family who were spread out along the course of the Bank of America Chicago Marathon cheering and supporting all of the runners and walkers. It really means a lot when you see a familiar face calling out your name. I was surprised how many people I really know calling out my name. I didn’t even wear my name this year on my jersey. So in short I love you all and thanks for being there.